It's been two years since I went on a semi-break/sabbatical. I know this from all the lovely Aberdovey (Ooberdoobey) sunset photos popping up in my timeline. I remember a most beautiful empty-brain feeling of heading to the Welsh seaside just to read and write and walk and relax.
Occasionally I look back and think how much taking a break brought a seachange in my work-life balance. I'm fitter now and hopefully a bit healthier than when I was a full-time sedentary editor. I try to only work on screen for half a day at a time; the rest involves some kind of balancing exercise, anything from tidying the house to health-checking rabbits as a Fat Fluffs volunteer to going for a 1km swim or walking up the Malverns with my 72-year-old mum-in-law last weekend (see main pic).
I now have strength in my arms and tone in my legs. Yes, I still have a waist tyre and bury tension in my shoulders but the feeling of being stronger is making me feel good, and that's inspired me to step up my exercise routine to include tai chi, aquafit and even a bit of upper body conditioning using weights. Chiselled shoulders a la Linda Hamilton in Terminator 2 is a life goal!
I'm still writing and editing because leaving behind the trade I learned at 19 feels impossible. It's what I'm trained for and I enjoy it, but I'm determined not to take too much client work on because I've enjoyed having the time to work on my own creative projects for a change.
Taking on a bit more work means finances have eased a bit. The bodyboarding dream trip may still happen after all, fitness permitting… although it's not a cheap hobby when you live in landlocked Birmingham.
I've been thinking about travelling a lot. I'm looking for my next adventure but it needs to be more meaningful than just bumming around as a solo backpacker of old. I'm torn between the simple aim of escaping the winter to work overseas for a few weeks and doing some kind of reportage story work (I have a several Instagramming photojournalists I admire).
I don't want to end on a downer note but if I were to die tomorrow, I want to say that I've really enjoyed taking some time out of my working life to stop and look around for a while. Like having a glimpse of retirement.
It's the simple things that have been the best, such as enjoying the sun all day long, not just in a lunch hour; watching the buns hop around and surprising the squirrels (don't ask); listening to my great-nephew as he discovers talking; catching a wave in the middle of February; working on my own writing for a change; watching the allotment sunset with Kerry and co; meeting up with friends and family in unpressured environments; colouring-in and collage nights in the local caff; having a lie-in on a weekday; hanging out with Pete; playing music; reading books; midnight blogging…
If you get a chance to take a work breather, even if only for a short while, I highly recommend it. I've had a very contented time thanks to working less.
Thankyou for reading this post-sabbatical ripple.